we are here, and we are living, and that is enough

a letter from me to, you, like we used to do it. remember that? remember then? very 2020-esque (which feels like a century ago now)…

MAR 19, 2026

hello ོ☼𓂃

It is nyepi today, for those who observe: the national day of silence. Which means the whole island has shut down and nothing is open and everything is silent and it’s literally the loveliest thing. It’s also new moon and the start of the astrological new year (the real new year imo), which all feels some kind of dialled-up level kismet.

Life has been so… everything lately, that I don’t even know where to start. Maybe the best start is: we are here, and we are living, and that is enough.

Since being fully revived from the depths of despair after the frickin’ snakebite of a year that was 2025, I am rekindling my mojo. Mojo! A word I scorn!

The only time I didn’t work for myself was when I worked for a public speaker and author while I seceretly built on my business on company time who fancied himself Australia’s Seth Godin, which to be fair, he kind of was, bald egg-head and all (and, might I add, a very kind employer, probably as good as they come) who loved to talk about losing and finding one’s mojo which he obviously must have had plenty of experience with since he wrote an entire book about it.

Anyway, I digress, here I am using the word because I can’t think of a better one.

Other words might be: my enthusiasm, charm, joie de vivre, appeal for life. Anyway, I feel more alive now than I have in a very, very long time, and I am grateful. So damn grateful. Even grateful for the shitshow that went down. All of it is just so good and fine and perfect. 

Amongst it all, I was reminded why I have devoted my entire life to learn about applying psychology, epigenetics, and the power of our consciousness to our everyday. We literally can change the entire trajectory of our lives by changing our minds. It’s wild. It’s so beautiful. What a gift. 

I spent the past 6 months doing exactly that. Lots of unpeeling, facing uncomfortable truths and discipline were involved. I was hard and I did not enjoy it particularly, but it worked, and that’s all that matters.

Back when I used to send these newsletters more like personal letters, I felt freer to include all of my invitations to my work more unprohibitively, but the last couple of years, that’s changed, and it’s… I don’t know… just felt different. But you know what? I am taking my power back.


TWO INVITATIONS FOR YOU

ONE

If you’ve been feeling the pull to go deeper, to have someone genuinely in your corner as you navigate what’s next, April is a good time to work together.

I’m offering a limited number of 1:1 mentoring packages this month at a special price. If we’ve worked together before, think of this as your next chapter. If we haven’t, this is a beautiful place to begin.

The April Mentoring Package
4 weekly 1:1 sessions
Email support between calls
A clear, focused approach to wherever you’re ready to move
€550, for April only

A few words from people I’ve had the privilege of working with:

“At 59, I discovered it’s never too late to transform.” — Annelie
“For the first time in a long time I felt the true potential of my business — and all of a sudden it felt EASY.” — Kate
“After just one session, I felt a deep shift. Right after our call, I got an email from what turned out to be one of my biggest clients.” — Gina Marie
“She helped me strip back the noise so I can see my essence more clearly. Before we started I felt drained, scattered and stretched thin. Now I feel so excited.” — Stephanie

These spaces fill quickly. If you feel the yes, reply to this email and we’ll take it from there.

email me


TWO

The Free 6-Day Clarity Challenge
Thursday 26 — Tuesday 31 March

This is the third time I’ve run this challenge, and each time it surprises me how much can shift in just six days. If you’ve been sitting with indecision, feeling like you’re at a crossroads, or simply craving a clearer sense of what you actually want, this was made for that.

Each day you’ll receive a short audio lesson and a reflection exercise, delivered straight to your phone via Telegram. The community that forms around it is, genuinely, one of the best parts. Last time, 100 people joined us.

What past participants have said:

‘Vienda’s reflections on stuckness were immediately helpful and deeply inspiring. The journaling exercises brought so much clarity, I’m already seeing things differently.”
“I loved the first audio note so much I shared it with my partner straight away. The whole experience felt thoughtful, generous, and genuinely impactful.”
“My biggest breakthrough was realising the new identity that’s been calling me. Through the journaling, it became so clear—and it felt really, really good.”
“This challenge helped me see a limiting belief I didn’t even realise I was holding: that I have to do things like everyone else. Choosing a different story feels incredibly freeing.”

It’s free. It starts in six days. It goes for six days. And it might be exactly what this season is asking for.

join the clarity challenge


Ok, back to story-time.

Girls (and guys, yes, I need you too, especially you!) I went on a date last night! Then I accidentally friend-zoned him! I need input! Wait, this is where we paywall because we are not spilling secrets to the public anymore. Nope. No, we are not.

continued here…


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